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No matter how much we women try to kid ourselves and think that we’re all completely individual people and that there’s no way to really attract any woman, there are several things that never fail to attract us girls and get us interested in a given man out of all the other men in the bar / club / room. The following are the traits that appeal to and attract all women, regardless of looks, age, interests, etc.

 

Don’t dress like a bum – Although this might seem obvious to most and comical to some, a simple glance around any bar / club by any woman (trust me!), will reveal many completely clueless men dressed like crap. Now don’t get me wrong, this is not snobbery and the goal is not to attempt to look as rich or wealthy as possible – built simply to be well presented.

 

Girls go to great lengths to get ready to go out for a night on the town, for hours in advance. We lay out different outfits to decide what to wear, do our hair (often redo it several times), bathe, use creams and apply makeup, and much more – simply to get ready for an average night at a club. Now why would a girl that put in all that time and effort into looking good, go out to hook up with some guy in a dirty t-shirt and jeans with (oh what style) a baseball cap. Think again. If you look like you just fell out of bed, plan on going back there, alone. If you’re serious enough to learn how to attract girls, you should at least be serious enough to take the time to look good, no exceptions!

 

Confidence – No matter what a girl tells you about the type of guys that she likes (“kind, sweet, thoughtful, etc.”), I’m going to let you in on the real secret of what women truly want in ANY man, and that’s confidence. It is without a doubt, the single most attractive thing to any and all women. Why do you think that so many smart, attractive and successful women go out with such jerks and put up with their lies, mistreatment, B.S. and drama? It’s not the fact that the guy’s a jerk that they like, it’s the simple fact that most jerks are confident. Being confident without being a jerk is the biggest turn on any woman could hope for.

 

Humor and Intrigue – All women love a mystery. This doesn’t mean you have to be aloof or rude, but at the same time realize that most guys talk way to much about themselves (and bore us to tears!). Just don’t give it all away at once, hold a few bits of information back (a cool hobby, an exciting vacation you took) and tell her at a later time. By remaining a bit mysterious you’ll not only be way ahead of the competition, you’ll also have a quality that fascinates most women.

 

 Also, Humor is important. I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase “Keep her laughing and you‘ve got her” or something similar. Being spontaneous and funny is so sexy because you not only convey having a sense of humor, but also intelligence and confidence, all at the same time! If you’re naturally witty, this can be like Viagra to the right woman! Just remember not to go too overboard (you‘ll risk seeming “try hard”) and no joking about taboo subjects (like religion, politics, or rude humor).

 

These are the “killer 3” rules that 99% of women respond to, and used together properly, are your secret weapons of seduction. For more advanced seduction techniques such as techniques of the master pick up artists, hypnotic seduction and more, visit Underground Seduction Today!

The more I use WordPress, the more I love it. It has 2 very important features that Blogger doesn’t yet support.

Number 1, you can set up WordPress to automatically ping all the RSS and blog feed directories every time you make a post. This is a very powerful feature if you want your blog to get a lot of traffic right away. On top of that, you’ll be quickly developing backlinks to your blog almost automatically.

Think about how long it can take you to build a regular site, get the search engines to index it, get backlinks to improve your listings, and then start getting traffic. A blog like WordPress can do all that “grunge” work for you automatically.

Number 2, WordPress allows the use of Categories. Categories are a very powerful way to improve the structure of your site both for human visitors and for the search engines.

Let’s say the topic of your site is Widgets. You could create a Category for black widgets, one for orange widgets, and one for green widgets.

Now when you add posts to your blog, you can choose which of your categories your post belongs to. Now your blog will archive your past posts not only by their month and date, as Blogger does. But also by Category.

So if you have a visitor who is especially interested in green widgets, they can easily find all your posts on green widgets. They don’t have to go through your entire archives to find them. With a blog that has been around for awhile and has hundreds of posts, that would be pretty discouraging. Using Categories makes it very easy.

Categories are also very search engine friendly. When you use Categories in your blog, there is a link on every one of your pages to your categories. Think about this: would you rather be #1 in the search engines for March 2003, or for green widgets, one of the main keywords of your site?

By using the Category feature, you will eventually have hundreds of pages on your site with links to green widgets, black widgets, and orange widgets. All those backlinks to those keywords can result in much higher search engine rankings.

Another neat feature is that you can easily create an RSS feed for each of your categories. Then every time you post to your blog, it could be pinging the Blog/RSS directories for each feed!

Compare that to putting up a new page on a traditional website. Even if the search engines find your new page right away, it might be a month or two before it actually gets indexed and starts drawing traffic. It might be a long time before it enjoys a first page position for its keywords.

It’s almost amazing how easy all this is with a well-structured blog like WordPress with Categories enabled!

The Indian culture is yet to come to terms when it comes to friendship between a Male and Female.The initial reaction is that of a wide eyed hawk looking for a scoop in it. Although, we have shown tremendous growth on social and economic front however our minds are yet to respond positively to this relationship. In the West, which is a yardstick for many of us, the friendship is just viewed as a greater and comfortable interaction between two persons. It does not matter much whether the concerned people are both males both females or male and female. I think we need to awaken up to this reality of life where this kind of friendship needs to be viewed with a positive frame of mind.

All our mythologicals have mostly mentioned about the friendship between males only. So, this mentality owes its inception to this period.The changing times could hardly reverse the trend. The male dominated society continued to guide the destiny of the people with this mentality. It’s a fact that most of the kings had a harem of women for their pleasure but we are yet to come across one queen who had this kind of facility for her.

Anyway, we are not advocating the need of harems but highlighting the need for positive and healthy friendship between male and females. Following wrongs doesn’t make us right so whatever wrongs we follow needs to be amended. Even the Indian constitution since its inception has recorded several amendments. So why cant the society change its line of thinking? It is needed.

Unlike the mythological age of kings, the men need to be more tolerant, understanding and have a broader perspective of life. If a female member of the family is friends with a male member there is no need to bring the house down. Just as men like to have friends similarly it is the requirement of females. If we don’t accept this harsh reality of life, we shall be in trouble sooner or later.

Newton, the great scientist, needs to be complimented for realizing this while jotting down his laws of motion. He says “To every action there is equal and opposite reaction”and we find this being followed in daily life today. A gal today wants to know that if her male member of the family can have a female friend why cant she have a male friend? Logically, she is correct. If you want her to follow you don’t do any indecent thing so that one can hold his head high while preaching others.

The root cause of this is our sick minded mentality which views the women as an object of sex only. We tend to forget the love, warmth, affection, care, glamor, decency, patience, kindness, gerosity etc she brings with her. On the other hand, men are capable of contributing by way of adventurism, enthusiasm, calmness, and ability to handle all odd situations, giving the feeling of protectiveness to women etc. Don’t we feel if we sum up all these qualities we can have a complete human being who would be an asset to any society at any time?

Male female friendship goes beyond the physical attractions. I feel its an individuals perception of viewing a situation. A half glass of water is half empty for some and half full for others. In other words its the way of looking up to situations from different angles. I have known some people who during the course of their work struck decent, meaningful, satisfying mutually beneficial friendship with the members of opposite sex. They love, adore and cherish it . How can such a friendship be put to acid test and tell me one person on earth who would not like to cultivate this kind of friendship? I think the evil minds need some repairs by jolting with heavy hammers in the head. I hope they don’t die during this activity.

A male getting attracted to a female and vice versa is nothing new. Its a natural phenomenon.The laws of magnetism have clearly spelled them.” Like poles repel each other and unlike poles attract each other”. Moreover, look how anxious one is while waiting for a friend of opposite sex over a cup of coffee and some delicious meal. I don’t think the coffee or the meal contribute much to their happiness than just the feeling of togetherness. They tend to put on the best of behaviors, the best of dresses to impress each other. The tensions of this modern world are released through this outlet and discussions are mostly constructive. All things are done decently because thats the basic requirement.